Happiness Heals Everything
Finding happiness heals everything. Over the last 10 years, I have seen how people of all ages and from all walks of life transform themselves from fear, anger, worry, frustration, jealousy, greed, bitterness, loneliness, sadness – and inner suffering from the loss of a loved one into Spirit – into a life of peace and acceptance.Why are we here? In my understanding of the bigger picture, we are here to learn through our personal experiences. Those experiences are not just about happy moments, or what we achieve in life – they are all about our pain and suffering too.
Imagine for just a moment that you were back home (in the Spirit world ), so why would you want to choose to come into a world filled with pain and suffering? The only answer could be that we want to experience how our challenges affect us; how we could really become stronger than those tests we choose to experience. So, just imagine this: we decide to experience another time on this physical planet and we are pure and strong in Spirit. You then say: ‘I want to come back and feel this and that, because I know I can conquer those feelings and become stronger and wiser.’ Then, when we do come here, we so often put our head in our hands and say: ‘Why… why… why me? Why must I go through so much suffering?’
Well, my beautiful, strong and ever-beautiful friend, if this is you, then never forget this: you are a lion. You are stronger than anyone and you will conquer these tests and challenges you gave yourself before coming into this world. So today, right now, stand up and hold your head high, and please listen to these words.
You are not being punished; you do not have bad luck, nor is this anything to do with Karma. Today you begin a new journey – one that will now take you to happiness. Today you will begin to see the joy and love you hold in your heart; you can look back and see all the wonderful things you have done for others, and see how truly strong you’ve been for everyone else. So, take this feeling and now turn it towards yourself.
This is your moment to start a new day, a new life and a new way in seeing that the only way you can begin to help yourself is to fully focus on you – and your happiness. It starts by you letting go of other people’s issues – you are not responsible for anyone else, so now is the time to let go of everything that keeps you frozen. It is time to focus on the most important person in your life – YOU. For if you turn all this time, love and care towards yourself, then just imagine how much stronger you will be for everyone else after you find that happiness which lies within you. You are here to learn many things, and one of them is to receive and accept all the good things that are now about to enter your life.
So. Why now?
Because today, you have made that decision to put yourself first – and more importantly, you have made it without any feelings of selfishness, because you know that you don’t have a selfish bone in your body. You are – and always will be – the most beautiful, kind and caring soul in this world; it’s just time to be that person for you. In a short time, if you can truly follow this path – and always remember that sometimes learning to say ‘no’ to others is in fact saying ‘yes’ to yourself – you will grow in self confidence and begin to shine that inner light which has always been inside your heart.
The day will then come when you are sitting by yourself and a small smile will appear. That, my beautiful friend, will be the smile that is the first true and meaningful smile that heals everything: you are now walking your true path of happiness.
Mark Bajerski
Healer of Hearts
